After years of being together, a couple unknowingly begins to take each other for granted. Life becomes busy and romance takes a back seat. This becomes detrimental for the relationship; the sooner one realizes this, the better.
After getting used to each other, couples tend to pay lesser attention to spicing up their relationship with each other. The much needed regular dose of romance becomes non-existent and the marriage suffers. Women are usually the first ones to complain about lack of romance in the relationship.
Maintaining a close, intimate bond with your partner is very important. To bring back the joy and excitement into a married life, one has to be committed towards it. It needs a lot of effort to keep a romantic relationship going. Many couples turn to counseling and tips from other married couples for this.
Some useful tips and tricks
Bringing back the romance can be an easy task. Just be creative and put in dedicated effort. Think and decide on something you can do to make your partner happy. Here are some simple ways in which you can bring back the zing and romance into your married life.
• Physical attraction has the strongest effect. So work on your body. Reduce that extra flab, get rid of body odour and make sure you smell good. Men should wear a clean shaved look with good clothes.
Women can try new hairstyle for a change. Take care of your nails, wear make-up and look attractive in front of your man. Both partners need to groom themselves well and look their best.
• Pay attention to each other’s likes and dislikes. Do things that will make the other happy. Cooking his favorite meal or coming home on time from work are some examples. The moment we stop caring about each other’s likes and dislikes, the marriage is sure to get ruined.
• Make surprise plans. This works like magic in most relationships. A weekend getaway or a short holiday trip is a great way to surprise the other. This way one gets to spend some private and quality time together. Again, keep each other’s likes and dislikes in mind while choosing the holiday destination.
• Complement often. Appreciate each other’s efforts whenever possible. Make the other feel valued and loved. If your partner does something to surprise you, appreciate it. Complementing in public can make a whole lot of difference too.
• Having quality sex is very important to bring your marriage back on tracks. Wear seductive clothes, indulge in sex games and toys and see how the magic works.
Bringing back and maintaining romance in a marriage needs consistent and dedicated effort. Having a romantic and happy married life is the precursor of all other happiness that one can enjoy in life. So, have a romantically happy marriage!
