Looking your very best is paramount when you get that opportunity to attend an auspicious evening party. The right dress that will flaunt your trim silhouette figure and flatter your best features is paramount. Getting the right dress that will make heads turn and make you irresistible to look at is extremely rewarding.

Your choice for the right dress, accessories and best behavior can make or break the moment and it is essential to get it right.

1. Finding the right dress for the occasion.

The right dress for the occasion will be determined by various factors

· Your unbiased companion to help you get the right dress

· Nature of the evening party

· Tasteful display of skin.

· Your choice color

· Fitting dress

a) Your unbiased companion

To get the right dress, the rule of the handbook is to never go alone. If you are going to buy the dress online then make sure you have your friend to give you an unbiased opinion of how it looks on you before going to the ball. A second opinion of how the dress looks on you is crucial and will give you an impression of how people will perceive you in the party.

b) Nature of the evening party

If you are a first timer for the formal evening party, and you are finding it hard to get a dress, you may want something that has collar and cuffs. An evening dress that is fitting properly with a collar helps you get the best of both worlds which speaks of official yet laid back. Darker shades of color are preferred and you can never go wrong with a black number unless the dress code was communicated.

For an informal evening party, lighter and brighter shades will make you stand out and also help you let your hair down and have a great time

c) Tasteful display of skin

Most people get it wrong when it comes to the tasteful display of skin while wearing sexy evening dresses. The secret is not showing too much skin and leaving something for imagination. The best part about wearing evening dresses is the allure of seduction whose power is completely held with the mind. As a rule of thumb, if you will display your shoulders then you need to cover your legs. The reverse is true when flaunting your gorgeous legs. For dresses that have one shoulder straps, a long slit may suffice. There are no rules however to what is right or wrong and it is up to you to be as creative as possible.

d) Your choice color

A nice color scheme that reflects your personality while seasoning you with modesty and grace works like a charm every time. Be careful of combining over three different colors in one single dress. Animal prints are okay as they are based on two choice colors but more than that you may end up looking like a clown.

e) Fitting dress

Sexy evening dresses that you do not let you breathe let alone move around with are curses and should be avoided like the plague no matter how beautiful they look. Wade off the temptation to wear oversized dress even if going for a formal party as it will bring you out as sloppy. Tight dresses on the other hand will make you look skimpy and elicit the wrong response and portray a wrong impression of you. A fitting and comfortable dress makes you even more irresistible drawing you out from the crowd

Finally, do not allow the weather to play tricks on you as the last thing you want to do is wear a coat on top of that gorgeous dress. Chances are it will be much warmer inside so allow yourself to show off that gorgeous dress you have worked so hard to find.

2. Accessories for the sexy evening dress.

Ideally, a little bit of makeup, some jewelry, a clutch bag and some high heels should do the trick. Make up has the power to transform you entire look and the matching earrings and necklace accentuates your facial features. Matching up the clutch bag and shoes is a traditional way of playing safe with the colors but it never gets old.

3. Your best behavior

The essential feature of great sexy evening dresses is the aura they bestow on you. The last thing you want to do is not to look the part. The allure to be intriguing and mysterious is natural to every woman and you have to find that within yourself. Just because they have your best wine in the party does not mean you have to fall into the temptation of getting into a drunken stupor. Act the part and let the dress do the talking.