Apology is the assessment of the negative behavior in the face, and positive in its content, is displayed through the courage of the individual to face reality, and in the fact that this culture is absent for some people in our Arab societies, where a person is considered Almkhto that an apology “belittled” while the opposite is true Valaatmar is the strength of character The equilibrium of thinking, and the human capacity to apologize is a human art forms which are not enjoyed by many people, yes, it requires the ability of note, culture, dream, rational and lucid thought.
The art of apology is the high value of human values upscale educated who can apologize to the other without dropping the thing of dignity, and at the same moment, the feel of the front of the satisfaction and peace of mind, even if initiated every offensive to apologize to Ansaleht a lot of cases, and died hatred and disappeared rancor.
What are the obligations of an apology?
First, admit error, and then feeling remorse for causing harm to others, and our willingness to take responsibility for our actions without creating excuses or blaming others and should be our desire to correct the situation through the provision of adequate compensation and sympathy with the other person.
Types of apology:
Divided the people in their awareness of the culture of apology to 3 categories:
1 – Quick apology: a self-review immediately upon the occurrence of unintentional error or negative behavior in the case of anger.
2 – to apologize after reviewing the self: Tatiana, a somewhat late, after serving Almkhto case review of the situation and simulation of self, which gave them the case of remorse, may offer a formal apology or indirectly manages a stand to show his desire to correct his behavior.
3 – The third category: it is what we find in our communities a little bit, and here the person is fully aware of the size of his mistakes, but altercations and apologize and refrain from calling people to embrace it as is.
What are the benefits of an apology?
– Help us to apologize to overcome our contempt and reproach ourselves for our conscience, which restores respect for those who Osina them.
– Opens the door, which continue Osdnah, and above all this is a healing of wounds and broken hearts.
How much is injected into the blood and how much to apologize like souls how Ghaleel cured, and without apology remains stuck in the event engorged heart in the chest and the victim wishes to recover his right, even if after a while. Let us be tolerant and positive, and we are stronger and Gerih to apologize, and open affection.