Impose social culture a certain pattern for «Panorama» interrelationships and interlocking between family members, especially between parents and children, and keeps each style its own peculiarities that distinguish it, thus forming a relationship of children to parents according to the frameworks that define the features of this relationship, with the progress of children at the age discovers a parents that his relationship with his son or his daughter, broke down the standards of friendliness, confidence and positive understanding that arise mainly from a sense of security with the father or the mother. The girl in all stages of age are affected by her mother, and emulated in all things, and regards it as its reference the first in all the affairs of life, and specificities, and in adolescence, in particular due to its sensitivity, and the nature of the special and critical, and often this relationship is a cautious, balanced and aware of the mother the seriousness of this stage experienced by the girl without Tchaaraa of, or caused her any tension or trouble, or deviation from the right path.

Explains psychologist Susan Halawi, the reality of this relationship, and says: «link the girl with her ​​mother very special, It’s the same no less important for the adolescent boy, and he needs a father role model, understand, and understand the motivations, needs and emotions, and the success of the adolescent to pass this period in peace and consensus depends largely on the relationship with his father in this period. It is important to emphasize the independence of her daughter and their growth and development of resources and capability and hobbies in different areas of positive, life is constantly changing and you need the daughter to a variety of capacities in order to be able to face life and its responsibilities successfully.Balanced and wise mother can encourage her daughter down and try to take her hand to the favor, and can rejoice and be happy that her daughter superiority and excellence in their different without being a challenge to its existence and value.And sometimes the opposite happens that the mother was neglected, a girl if properly constructed psychological Vtgdaa give a lot of affection and her daughters make up the missed what she was small. It could be the biggest reason is the lack of educational culture, we find highly educated mother does not know anything about the origins of education and dealing with children. Mother no longer find at her daughter’s time to move of their experience and knowledge, because the girl is busy learning and study even get married and after becoming a mother does not know anything about the origins of education and home management, and then did not know anything about adolescence and gravity ».

Coercive methods

Add Halawi: «There are mothers deal with their daughters-specific manner repeated the criticism and blame and demanding that the daughter-specific ways of behavior and thinking, without taking into account the personality and wishes and ambitions and desires of their own, and the frequent frustrations of her daughter and her anger and concern, and often give up and repeated in the methods and actions The features of her mother, even if it is satisfied that, in other cases there revolt and disobedience and conflict with the authority of the mother, leading to various problems, and is no doubt that the relationship between mother and daughter relationship is complex and involves several levels, including the educational role of the decree by social values which is confirmed in most of the mothers. However, there is an important role in a coercive aspects of the methods which have been the mother herself when she was small, which is similar to the series «protectors» relationship in terms of negative and contradictory emotions, which lead to social and psychological problems, and manifold. Valabina in general are in dire need of love, as one of the basic needs and the task, and the absence of loss of love, and compassion, would cause a lot of mental and behavioral disorders. If the feelings of love this surplus and excess to the parties «the father or the mother», it is natural that the corresponding comment and a link to a plus of the other party «children, but that does not mean that there are flaws in the same one parent, but in how to express his love, at a time be necessary to rely on weapons or other means are firmness and severity, if necessary, and when needed, and adds: We have to understand the demand for many of the fathers to their daughters much better compared Bajuanhen males, perhaps to a sense of the father needs his daughter to the more tenderness and compassion in dealing as a female, or the nature of the females, which tend to be calm and obedience, modesty and shame than males ».