1. It is better to build your assets before you get married so that you can increase your real estate. Make your assets equitable. It brings happiness to your life, marriage and home.
2. Courtship is a stage of maturity. It involves an act of looking beyond the depth to understand the reality. Most marriages do not work because of the inability of people involved to understand this reality. It is in your best interest to ask yourself some questions and answer them before saying I do and uniting in marriage with someone.
3. Do not get married to someone you do not really know. Marriage is a state of well-being or pleasurable satisfaction that is worth going into with the right knowledge. If you can come to a decision and settle the score of your concept as a result of your inability to be full of knowledge in courtship, you will reduce your percentage of settling for divorce. Do not try to settle for divorce in your marriage. It simply means you have fallen short of maturity and you have also being found wanting in this life.
4. A man who can afford to repudiate his wife as a result of his inability to be wise in courtship should not get hitched to his wife’s best friend. It is a reprobate behavior.
5. A man of great inspiration, determination, enthusiasm, ability and skills should get married to a girl of large progressive ideas. When you get married, try as much as you can to magnify and amplify your vision. It is in your best interest to give lives a new meaning and fulfill your purpose for living.
6. A young man who is messing up because of a young girl who does not take him for real should know that a hero is emerging somewhere. As a man, it is in your best interest to be a hero to a girl who treasures you and who is champing at the bit to hold you dear as her most cherished sweetheart. Be gentle and real. The gentility of loving another is being lovely and acceptable in relationship. Relationship is an investment; make the best of it.
7. Get maturity and be financially responsible before you get married. Marriage is very beautiful when you go into it prepared. It is wisdom to enjoy your marriage in view of the fact that it is a life worth living rightly.