When two people tie the knot, they’re supposed to be loyal to each other all the time. They need to stick to their marriage vows to love and care for each other till death. However, this is not always the case as some get into extra marital affairs at some point in their lives. Worse, some are not able to realize their mistakes and just drift away from their relationship leading to divorce.
Although a relationship is always a two-way street, wives normally assume a greater responsibility in managing their marriage. As such, they need to find ways to nurture their bond and keep the flame of love alive for the long term. Making the extra effort and being consistent are essential in this aspect.
There are actually numerous ways to improve a marriage. Not every step, however, may be effective in every relationship so you’ll have to try it in order to know if it’ll work for you and your husband. You can read books or just browse conveniently on the internet and you will surely be able to gather a wealth of information on how to keep your relationship strong moving forward.
One latest discovery on how wives can keep their husbands attracted to them is about using the color red. Studies have found that red is considered a stimulant for men. This color arouses them and increases their desire to chase. If you still don’t know it yet, red has already been considered for centuries as a color of seduction and linked to passionate women.
A 2008 research conducted by the University of Rochester also showed that men are more attracted sexually to women wearing red clothes. This finding is said to have a link to the natural mating instinct of primates. It’s been found that female baboons and chimpanzees actually redden while nearing their ovulation period thereby signaling the males that the mating season is about to start.
So if you get the cue, why not try this tip of wearing something red when you and your husband go out on a date. Whether you’re dining out at night or going away for a weekend without the kids, there’s no harm in wearing something red to keep him close by.
Apart from this, however, you also need to show your loving gestures every day as much as possible. Giving your partner a hug and kiss every morning you wake up, before he leaves for work and before you sleep can make him aware that you love and care for him.
Don’t forget as well to make your husband a priority over your kids. This may surprise you but according to the experts and those who have done this in their own relationship, it’s an effective way of making your marital bond last for a long time. The tendency for some wives is to make their children on top of their list but this attitude will only make your husband feel inferior.